Posterous theme by Cory Watilo

Filed under: Family

Capturing a moment

[two rocks and a cup of water]

Image by [noone] via Flickr

Sitting on a lumpy seat
Holding her cup of water.
Nothing else could be as sweet
As this moment with my daughter.

The rush of the world makes it easy to forget the important things. It's good to get an occasional reminder of the things that make everything else matter.

Is this a sign?

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We drove through a LOT of backroads to find the place where my wife's dad's family reunion is being held.  I parked and got out.  Then I noticed what I was parked next to.  I thought, "Hmm, I hope I don't stand out as much as my car does."

My hopes were dashed.  Just saying.

The Ringing Grooves of Change

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Sometimes, it's easy to forget how different my life is today from how it was 25 years ago.  I am sitting poolside as a guest at the same Country Club I worked at as a teenage dropout with no prospect for a real future.

I washed the dishes that these people dirtied and cooked the food that these people ordered.  I saw them as a different species.  Unapproachable, inscrutable, and odd.  They were the epitome of what I would never be.  We were intrinsically different.

Today, my daughter attends the same private school as them, she is invited to their parties, their homes, and their clubs.  And I'm just another one of them.  So here I am, ordering drinks and food from the kitchen where I labored.